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What makes you different?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 05:31

What makes you different?

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Agree?

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

Has anyone liked being made a cocksucker?

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Why is the covert narcissist actively avoiding me when they see me everyday?

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

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Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

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A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

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Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

What does it feel like to "lose your looks" to age?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Can you make it?

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Why do you write?

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

What makes you YOU.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Should women be allowed in “combat roles” within the military?

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Why do I feel worthless most of the time?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

So, keep on experimenting.

What might be the social consequences of an ethnic as opposed to a civic conception of the nation?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone and it was right?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

So, what actually makes us all different?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Women like what they hear while men like what they see, it that true?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Why do only ugly women like me on Tinder? Is it because I'm an ugly man?

What if he’d come outside?

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

Why does TikTok allow porn stars in its platform? Isn't it aimed at teenagers?

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.